Narcissists are highly manipulative people. But because this discard has nothing to with losing interest in that person, they usually came back to try other methods of attracting that person. As a result, they devalue and discard that person no matter how much they were previously interested in him/her. They will discard-hoover you: when a narcissist keeps showing interest in someone who is not reciprocating, it badly hurts their ego.Narcissists are likely to use love bombing to attract their ex back but they can also use it to attract someone they are in love with especially if they feel comfortable around that person. Love bombing is when a narcissist shows you exaggerated love, affection and attention. They will love bomb you: this is the most obvious sign.It also helps them project an image of superiority that they always want people to see especially those they like. They display exaggerated confidence around the person they are in love with in order to attract them. They will behave overly confident: narcissists know that confidence and charm attract people.While staring can also be used as a manipulation tactic, a prolonged stare can also indicate that they are preoccupied with the person in their thoughts and evaluating his/her looks and movements. They will stare at you: in my article “ why do narcissists stare” I said that narcissists tend to stare to someone they are attracted to.Some narcissists are so intelligent they will show off indirectly because they know that people don’t like showy people. When a narcissist thinks that you are not giving him the admiration he thinks he deserves, or when he thinks that you are not yet impressed, they display their good qualities and everything good they have in order to win your admiration. They will show off: showing off is another sign that a narcissist is interested in you.For this reason, when they are in love with a person they will be eager to impress that person not only to attract them but also because getting positive feedback from that person would make them feel really good about themselves. Getting positive feedback from a person they don’t value that much is not as important as getting positive feedback from someone they value. However, they don’t judge people equally. They will try to impress you: narcissists usually try to impress people in general and when they get positive feedback they feel good about themselves.How to Tell if a Narcissist is Interested in you Of course their love is different and that’s why many people find it hard to understand them. While it’s true that narcissists love themselves so much, they do feel attraction and love towards others as well. Some people think that narcissists only love themselves and not capable of loving anyone but that’s not 100% true. Contrary to what many people believe, narcissists are not difficult to read provided that you know what to look for.